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In the last hundred years, dating and sex lives have changed dramatically.
We no longer marry with the purpose of bringing 14 children into the world who can help us with the tedious household and farm chores.
The sole purpose of human beings since the beginning of time has been survival and procreation. From this point of view, women take the greatest risk in choosing the right partner because they are bound to the child.
Therefore, men must prove themselves through power, intelligence, integrity, money, appearance, etc.
Of the 6500 or so mammalian species, only 3 to 5 percent are known to form lifelong pair bonds, so it is a rarity.
Why do humans search for a lifelong partner?
The main reason why people get involved in romantic relationships is that they (in most cases) seek a deep connection. At the same time, it is extremely difficult to maintain demand and care in a relationship, as most partners strive to make up for their shortcomings with their partner.
In an ideal world, you should have individual happiness and know each other well before entering into such a close relationship.
Don’t bypass the possibility of finding someone worthy, someone who can handle it…
